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Stranger

I was surrounded by the  people  of different mentality but somthing was comman in all they were  running for  pleasure , ambition , money and fun in order to get prosperity of cherish moment and they used to hide their identity and being fake , to be an icon .

So being optimistic and unaware about the fact I was also in the same race of humbug people  ,my life was on similar track in the same phase But when i met a person who unknowingly taught me lot of things  and changed my perspective , it’s not that now i am completely different person but only because of him that i am able to start my new year with new ideologies and ameliorate to be a patent of my own journey . The most crucial lesson  that I learnt so far is that how much time you spend with the person don’t matter  but how much you learn from his experiences matters a lot.

I know, the stages of our lives have different turning phases, but the reinvigorating moment brought by those people who were stranger to us ,so let’s we all say soulfully and heartly big thank you to them for showing us the path .

Be a lie detector!!!!

Hello friends !!!

 To kese hai app log???

I am back (after a long time) with another post ( amazing or not that you will decide 😉 )  

We always think that if it is possible to know that other person is speaking truth or not ……. So 

Here are 8 little details to study the next time you think someone is lying to you! 
1. When people lie, their breathing pattern changes!
When one feels cornered, their breathing becomes ragged and heavy. It’s a reflex action when one is feeling tense and nervous – and it happens because of an increase in heart rate and blood flow. Even if you aren’t sitting close enough to somebody to notice changes in their breathing, you can notice their shoulders, which tend to rise when one is lying – and their voice tends to become unclear.

2. They start providing too many details…
When people lie, they try to avoid any direct confrontation – and in the process tend to mix up their words with things of least relevance. They start giving more information than required or asked for because they think staying quiet will expose them while narrating a long story will make the other person believe their lie.

3. They unconsciously start twitching and fidgeting
You may have noticed how people involuntarily start touching their nose, the back of their ears, their throat, or their chest when they feel nervous. These are vulnerable parts of one’s body – and when one is lying, these parts feel especially exposed. Therefore, instinctively, they try to protect them and start fidgeting and/ or covering these parts with their hands.

4. They point their feet in any direction except towards you!
If you want to know what’s really going on in someone’s mind, watch their feet! If they are pointing away from you, or are pointing towards the exit, then know that they probably want to escape the situation – because he/ she is feeling nervous or pressurised.

5. Contrary to popular belief, they avoid blinking too much and actually stare straight into the other person’s eyes!
When we’re telling the truth, we do not hesitate to look around. But when we’re lying, we’re focusing on making the other person believe that lie. And so we overcompensate by looking them directly in the eye – sometimes way too intently. Steady eye contact also translates into confidence for many, and hence the liar is able to manipulate others into believing him or her.

6. They repeat words and phrases!
It’s a human tendency to remember what’s been said or repeated most – so when people lie, they tend to repeat everything over and over again to drill into the listener’s mind whatever it is that they want him or her to believe. They also repeat some phrases and words to buy more time to create a more elaborate story.

7. They may turn hostile and aggressive
When people lie, they feel threatened and are scared of being exposed. So in an effort to save their own butts, they try to turn the tables by taking on an angry, threatening tone and acting defensive!

8. They try to place objects between themselves and you
When we feel exposed and vulnerable, we instinctively try and keep a distance from the person or thing that is making us feel that way. Similarly, when someone’s reeling under the pressure of lying and the fear of being exposed, he or she instinctively places random objects between the other person and themselves. This Somehow makes them feel less insure about getting caught.

Best Personal Protection Devices for Women

What are the best personal protection devices for women? What are the top best self defense devices for women? Well, I suggest you read on.

It is no longer news that crime is on the rise all over the world and because most victims of violent attacks are women, they require special attention as regards safety. Fortunately, many female-friendly personal protection devices are available in the market. So in this post, i will be discussing the best 10 self-defense devices (female-friendly) that you can find in the market as of present.


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10 Best Personal Self Protection Devices for Women

1.  The stun gun
This small gun charges an attacker with an electric shock. The shock weakens the attacker temporarily, giving you ample chance to escape the scene. When its trigger is pulled, a stun gun pumps about 700,000 volts into the attacker’s body. Some stun guns are small enough to be concealed in a pack of cigarettes. They run on Lithium batteries and can be carried either in handbags or held in waist straps.

2.  The stun baton

Shaped like the baton used in relay races, this self defense device paralyzes the attacker by distorting communication between his brain and voluntary muscles. This leads to a loss of balance, disorientation, confusion, and loss of muscle control. Even though the stun baton pumps up to 800,000 volts of electric shock into the attacker’s body, full recovery takes place within five to ten minutes. Stun batons run on rechargeable batteries, and they come with a belt loop for easy carrying.

3.  The pepper spray
This is the most feminine-looking personal defense device, as it is shaped like a lipstick and is available in many colors that females love. Pepper spray contains oleoresin capsicum, a reddish-orange, oily liquid that is extracted from Cayenne pepper. The pepper spray is small and handy; it can fit perfectly into your cosmetic purse or pocket. It is very easy to use – pretend that you want to apply it on your lips and spray it to fend off an attacker. The attacker will experience short-term blindness, excruciating pain, uncontrollable flow of tears, sneezing, and coughing. While he is in that state, you can easily find an escape route.

4.  The stun rings



A stun ring is an attractive ring that looks elegant and can pass for fashion ring. But more importantly, it offers safety and instills confidence. The ring contains pepper spray, and it protects you in times of attack, rape, violence and crisis.

5.   The personal alarm



Though very small, this device can scream very loudly at the push of a button. So, when you are attacked, you can use it to attract attention. The loud scream alone can discourage attackers, as it continues until you stop it. Some personal alarms even have in-built light, which helps you find objects or your way through the dark.

6.  The lightning strike 

personal protection device
This torch-like device was originally developed for use by police officers, but many civilians now use it as well. It protects you by shortly blinding and disorienting the attacker – thanks to the several lumens of strong white light produced by the LEDs in the device. The lightning strike device is light and small; you can carry it even while jogging.

7.   The mace spray



This tube-like device, like the pepper spray, causes inflammation of the eye capillaries and temporary visual impairment. It also causes choking, sneezing, and severe burning sensation to the eyes, nose, and throat. However, these effects are not permanent.

8.   The TASER device



This personal protection device can stun an attacker from a distance of about 15 feet away. Yet, it doubles as a powerful contact stun device. The device is very easy to use because hitting it anywhere on the attacker’s body will render him incapacitated. This is quite unlike pepper sprays and other self-defense devices, all of which 

Poetry

I rush out in the garden with a smile on my face,

Stroking the beautiful flowers with petals as soft as lace,

A swift refreshing breeze gushes by 

Reviving my bitters spirit as i lie ;

a whiff of perfume and ring 

I sit beside the rippling waters and feel like a king

Swarms of flies soar high and low,

A bird rings blithely on a budding bough;

I can hear the wind singing me 

It is a thingh that i can feel but cannot see…..

Don’t forget to comment!!!!

Hola bloggers,

kese ho aap log??? ( how are you)

Sorry friends i have’nt published any post last week.

Actully, nowadays I am quite busy preparing for my CAT exam that is on 24th of nov. 

So wish me luck friends 😉

I know you all must be curious about the title of this post so, let me tell you this is a normal conversation post as i was missing you all . I want everyone to comment otherwise there will be no meaning of this post 🙁

Friends I am planning to do a post about me in which i will tell you all about I ,me and myself 😀

 In this post i’ll also share some of my pics and my social media links.

If you want that post , so let me know in comment section and if you want post on some particular topics so plzz comment that too.

Have a nice day !!!  ☺

Why not hindi ???

Why in india we consider hindi as a secondary language or a language of illiterate ???

Why people feel shame in accepting that they dont know english while some boast of not knowing hindi ???

Why we see english as a cool language and hindi as a language of “gawar”???

Its soo disheartning to say that we are living in a country where people are ashamed of speaking in their mother toungue in public.

I am not against english, its always good to learn other languages . I am against ones who look down on hindi.

 We love our country and we are proud of it so why can’t we love hindi and proud of it too

LETS ASK FROM OURSELVES …….WHY NOT HINDI ???


Why are you not successful


Why there are some who achieve their dreams many who does’nt ???

Why some are able to turn their illusion into reality while others just live in illusions ???

What is the difference between a successful  person  and  a   commoners???

 You also want to be a successful person…..so let me show you the path to success

1. Be crystal clear about your dream. You should know what exactly you want .

2. Once you are clear about your ambition then pick up pen and dairy as its time to plan because –

If you fail to plain then you plan to fail.

Let me tell you friend 80% of us reach to this step . 

  3. Next step is to action.

Your 90% success depend on this step .

You have to take action immediately . You have to follow your plan without procrastination. 

# we all are procrastinators. Believe me this is the sole reason for our failure. We don’t postpone our task but we postpone our dreams. I know saying  “stop procrastination” is very easy but actually doing it is an uphill task . I know there are days when you dont want to do anythingh, so on those days just go with the flow . Follow your brain instead of following your mood. For example-  If i dont want to get up from bed , i get up from bed . If i dont want to workout , i just workout.  

So friends dont be slave of your mood . If you have to do somthingh just do it without pondering wheather you want to do it or not. Make a thumb rule of your life NOW OR NEVER .

Now you guyz must be thinking that remaining 10% success depends on what ???

And the answer is upcoming 4th and 5th steps.

4. Attitude – How you deal with your triumph and failure . friends failure is part of success . We should know how to handle failure,Instead of getting depressed we should take it positively and learn somethingh from it . Along with failure you should also know how to handle your success. 

This point is very important because I have seen many people who even after doing proper planning and hard work fails to reach at the top because either they get depressed by their failure and give up or they take their success on head and consider themselves as best of best due to which they stop learning, stop growing and evetually fail….

So , KEEP CALM AND WORK HARD.

5 . Last step is to NEVER EVER GIVE UP . No matter what happen just don’t give up. 

Because friends if there is a point where you feel like – i can’t bear it any more , its enough  then congrates my friend you are very close to your dream.

It is well said by someone that success came just after the point when you are at a verge of giving up.

So is’t insane to give up when you are so close to your goal ???


So follow these steps and fulfill you dreams…..

And let me know in comment section if i have missed any important point.😊



BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL

From the acient times white is considered as the  symbol of  purity , beauty, truth and peace , whereas black is seen as a colour of  evil and ugly…….

Thats the reason today we are too biased towards white complexion.

If you are fair then you are beautiful , if you have white complexion then you are attractive.

I just wana say friends its 2017 , high time to break the stereotype . Even the jury of beauty competition does’nt consider skintone as a criteria to judge on then why we do . There are soo many beautiful actress and models who don’t have white complextion.

And one thingh that is encouraging this colourism is whitening creams .

The ads of these whitening creams shows that if one dont have a fare complextion then he or she will not get the attention and respect that one should get.

What rubbish is this and why we are tolerating all this.

Friends if you agree with me ( even 1 % ) then please boycott these skin lightning products. These companies are playing with the emotions of people ,just for money.

Be proud of your skin and if are proud of your skin and your body then you will automatically have a confident personality , you dont need any bullshit cream to increase your confidence.

And please friends share this post and make sure that next time there should not be any skin whitening product in your shopping list.

Boycotttttt these stuffffff